We caught up with some people from high school today. It was better than I'd anticipated, but the husband of one girl in particular is still not someone I actually want to engage in a conversation with. I quite successfully managed to tune him out most of the time, but there were two conversation threads have stuck in my head.
It always irks me when people have opinions which they expect everyone else in the world to agree with unconditionally. More than an expection, it's as though it has never occurred to them that alternative views exist.
His first statement was that he's done the maths and that rather than go to the UK to work and travel, people should stay home and just travel during during their annual leave. Because after you take into account the relocation costs etc. it just doesn't work out financially. Huh?
But the thing that really annoyed me was his statement that he'd decided to give up overseas travel for 10 years whilst the children were young because it was too much of a hassle. His sister is a paediatrican and drugs her kids, but he doesn't want to drug his, so it's no travel for them. Double huh??
So many retorts ran through my head, but I kept quiet. There just wasn't any point in arguing with such a person. Does this mean I'm becoming more tolerant? No wait, I had some very intolerant thoughts when, after we told him what WB's name was, he questioned us bout it being a girl's name. Because, once again, there is no possibility that he was thinking of a completely different name which sounds similar to WB's is when the latter is pronounced incorrectly.
Perhaps I should have said 'Oh dear, you're right, why didn't someone tell me this 10 months ago?' Or maybe just 'Wow, you're stupid. And incredibly rude.'
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